I will never understand why people wait so long or think they should keep waiting even more, people should always cancel after 1 month if there is not any kind of answer from artist even 2 months is quite generous assuming artist could have some kind of accident or ilness but 4 years....

Forget about, the guy could as well be retired or dead at this point, last time he upload something was 2 years ago and last time online 1 year, he clearly dont care this site, lastly even if he suddenly appear, with how the site works now, he will not be payed for finishing just your commission, he would need to get more, which I dont think would be a great incentive for him...

You need to cancel that request

I figure after two months with no communication, the commission will not get done. But if the artist gets in touch and has technical or health problems they tell me about, I'll give them more time, but four years is too long either way. Copy the idea and repost it.

There are so many requests that are stuck in time, even among the winning ones, the artists and the authors who created them have not visited the site for half a year or several years. Dead section. I remember the times when all orders passed through requests only. It was fun.

If you mean a buttjob and titjob at the same time, that sound interesting

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He's over 3 weeks late on a commission and doesn't reply to PM's

I also have commission with SenyorPretty that started 4 years ago. The last time I've heard from them was 2 years ago.

Do they have any kind of social media to contact them?

well since it's 3-4 years already you should consider taking your evs back and choosing someone else then